ON THE NECESSITY OF INTERIOR STRUGGLE
TO FOLLOW CHRIST:
Make It a Habit to Say “NO” to Yourself for Love of God
“And he called to him the multitude with his disciples, and said to them, ‘If any man would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me (Mk 8:34).’”
Perhaps we have read and heard these words a lot of times but the main idea, that of self-renunciation as a requirement to follow Christ, still remains just that, an idea, without being carried out and materialized in our daily ordinary activities. The question is:
DO WE SAY ‘NO’ TO OURSELVES MANY TIMES DURING THE DAY FOR LOVE OF GOD AND
AS AN AUTHENTIC MANIFESTATION OF OUR DESIRE TO FOLLOW CHRIST ?
Then you may ask: TO WHICH THINGS DO I HAVE TO SAY “NO” TO MYSELF?
- As a GENERAL RULE, to EVERYTHING WHICH SEPARATES US FROM OUR LORD, to EVERYTHING WHICH MAKES HIM SAD, AND LEADS US TO LOSE HIS GRACE IN OUR SOUL: SIN!
- CONCRETELY, we have to say “NO” many times during the day for love of God to the “OLD MAN” within ourself, to the “CARNAL life ( as opposed to the life of the Spirit)” and its multiple manifestations: PRIDE, ENVY, LAZINESS, LUST, GREED, VANITY, ANGER with all their specific expressions, whether internal or external.
- Making it a habit to say “NO” to all aforementioned things for love of God is no other that what is called INTERIOR STRUGGLE, necessary to love God, to acquire human virtues and to progress in one’s spiritual life and thus holiness.
- Christian life consists in following Christ and carrying His Cross as He taught us. He does not ask us for an occasional self-giving or a short-lived, fleeting enthusiasm, but rather asks each and everyone to renounce ourselves, take up our cross and follow him. For this is what love is all about: love supposes sacrifice and self-renunciation for the sake and good of the beloved. Anyone who is not willing to renounce himself for the sake, happiness and good of the beloved does not know how to love others but only himself.
Let us not flee from the Christ’s Cross (suffering, pain, illness, difficulties, problems of daily life…).
“There is a kind of fear around, a fear of the Cross, of our Lord’s Cross. What has happened is that people have begun to regard as crosses all the unpleasant things that crop up in life, and they do not know how to take them as God’s children should, with supernatural outlook. So much so, that they are even removing the roadside crosses set up by our forefathers …
“In the Passion, the Cross ceased to be a symbol of punishment and became instead a sign of victory. The Cross is the emblem of the Redeemer: in quo est salus, vita et resurrectio nostra: there lies our salvation, our life and our resurrection” (St. Josemaria, The Way of the Cross,II, 5).
Hence, dear friends, let us make it a habit to say “no” to ourselves many times during the day for love of God, for this is the only way for us to follow Christ towards our eternal destiny. “Whoever loses his life for my sake and that of the gospel will save it (Mk 8:35).”
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being raised in an era of self indulgence the word “NO” has all but left our lexicon. It is refreshing to see some still cling to those rigid traditions of saying “NO” to ones disordered passions
Thanks. To say “no” to one’s disordered passions is not at all a rigid tradition but rather the only and perennial way to love God and live for Him. It’s a choice of between what God wants and what the “old man” in us reclaims. It has been and always will be a battle between good and evil which every person experiences within.
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It is self denial because you no longer operate under the cyclical pattern of the world .
It is self-denial because a Christian has to choose between God’s will and one’s own will. Loving entails self-giving, which in turn becomes a reality if there is self-renunciation. And this holds true in our dealings with God and with others.