POPE FRANCIS ON THE REPONSIBILITY OF FAMILIES
IN LIVING AND SPREADING THE FAITH TO BUILD A BETTER SOCIETY
Dear friends, in the Sept. 2 General Audience, Pope Francis tackled the responsibility of the Christian family in letting itself transformed by faith in and love for God in order to communicate it to the rest of the society, thus converting itself as fountain of hope for the others. The Roman Pontiff mentioned the following ideas among many others;
- When the primacy of faith in God is lived in the family, family bonds are “transformed, are ‘filled’ with greater meaning and are capable of going beyond themselves, to create a wider paternity and maternity, and to receive as brothers and sisters also those that are on the margins of every bond.”
- When faith, love and obedience to God reign in the family, family ties are protected, shielded from egoism and degradation, and are paths leading to eternal life.
- “When family affections allow themselves to be converted to witness of the Gospel, they become capable of unthinkable things, which make one touch with the hand the works of God… Where there is a family with love, that family is capable of warming the heart of a whole city with its witness of love.”
Dear friends, let us then strive to put God as the first priority in our family life, letting our faith in and love for Him permeate all our family ties, letting Him reign in our homes through our lives coherent with our faith and love for God.
Christian families are destined to transform the society being instruments of unity, peace and love. If we want to contribute to the evangelization of the present materialistic society we live in, let us start evangelizing our own homes, so that God may transform all our family ties which will definitely have a repercussion, with the help of God’s grace and our correspondence, to all those around us.
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Below is the translation of the Pope’s speech taken from zenit.org with some modifications to make it more readable. TITLES AND HIGHLIGHTS mine.
Dear Brothers and Sisters, good morning!
In this last stage of our course of catechesis on the family, we look at the way the family lives the responsibility to communicate the faith, to transmit the faith, be it within or outside itself.
Initially, some evangelical expressions can come to mind that seem to oppose the bonds of the family and the following of Jesus. For instance, those strong words we all know and have heard: “He who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me” (Matthew 10:37-38).
- JESUS TEACHES US THE PRIMACY OF FAITH IN FAMILY LIFE.
Of course, with this Jesus does not want to cancel the Fourth Commandment, which is the first great Commandment directed towards persons. The first three Commandments are in relation to God, this one [now is] in relation to persons. Neither can we think that the Lord, after having worked his miracle for the spouses of Cana, after having consecrated the conjugal bond between man and woman, after having restored sons and daughters to family life, is asking us to be insensitive to these bonds! This isn’t the explanation. On the contrary, when Jesus affirms the primacy of faith in God, he finds no greater significant paragon than family affections. And, on the other hand, these same family bonds, within the experience of faith and love of God, are transformed, are “filled” with greater meaning and are capable of going beyond themselves, to create a wider paternity and maternity, and to receive as brothers and sisters also those that are on the margins of every bond. One day, to one who said to him that his mother and brethren were outside looking for him, Jesus answered, pointing to his disciples: “Here are my mother and my brethren! Whoever does the will of God is my brother and sister, and mother” (Mark 3:34-35).
The wisdom of affections that are not bought and are not sold is the best gift of the family genius. In fact in the family we learn to grow in that atmosphere of wisdom of the affections. Their “grammar” is learned there; otherwise it is very difficult to learn it. And it is precisely this language through which God makes himself understood by all.
- PUTTING GOD AS THE CENTER OF FAMILY LIFE PROTECTS THE FAMILY ITSELF FROM EGOISM AND DEGRADATION. THE FAMILY THEN BECOMES A WITNESS TO THE GOSPEL CAPABLE OF GIVING HOPE AND DIRECTION TO THE SOCIETY.
The invitation to put family ties in the realm of obedience of the faith and of the alliance with the Lord does not mortify them; on the contrary, it protects them, it detaches them from egoism, it protects them from degradation, it leads them safely to the life that does not die. The circulation of a family style in human relations is a blessing for peoples: it brings hope on earth. When family affections allow themselves to be converted to witness of the Gospel, they become capable of unthinkable things, which make one touch with the hand the works of God, those works God carries out in history, such as those that Jesus carried out for the men, women and children he met. Only one smile wrung miraculously from the despair of an abandoned child, who begins to live again, explains to us God’s way of acting in the world more than a thousand theological treatises. Just one man and one woman, capable of risking and sacrificing themselves for a child of others, and not only for their own, explains things of love to us that many scientists no longer understand. And where these family affections exist, these gestures of the heart are born which are more eloquent than words. The gesture of love …. this makes one think.
The family that responds to Jesus’ call restores the direction of the world to the alliance of man and woman with God. Think of the development of this testimony today. Let us imagine that the rudder of history (of society, of the economy, of politics) is finally restored to the covenant of man and woman, so that they govern it with their look turned to the coming generation. The subjects of the earth and of the home, of the economy and of work, would sound a very different music!
If, beginning with the Church, we give back leadership to the family that listens to the Word of God and puts it into practice, we will become like the good wine of the Wedding of Cana, we will grow like God’s leaven!
- A FAMILY UNITED WITH GOD IS CALLED TO OPPOSE THE LACK OF LOVE IN THE MODERN SOCIETY. A FAMILY WITH ITS WITNESS OF LOVE IS BLESSING TO THE SOCIETY.
In fact, the family’s alliance with God is called today to oppose the communal desertification of the modern city. But our cities have become like deserts because of lack of love, because of a lack of smiles. So many amusements, so many things to pass time, to make one laugh, but love is lacking. A family’s smile is capable of overcoming this desertification of our cities. And this is the victory of the love of the family. No economic or political engineering is able to substitute this contribution of families. The Babel project builds skyscrapers without life. Instead, God’s Spirit makes deserts flower (cf. Isaiah 32:15). We must come out of the armored towers and rooms of the elites, to frequent again the homes and open spaces of the multitudes, open to the love of the family.
The communion of charisms – those given to the Sacrament of Marriage and those granted to consecration for the Kingdom of God – is destined to transform the Church into a fully familiar place for the encounter with God. Let us go forward on this path; let us not lose hope. WHERE THERE IS A FAMILY WITH LOVE, THAT FAMILY IS CAPABLE OF WARMING THE HEART OF A WHOLE CITY WITH ITS WITNESS OF LOVE.
Pray for me, let us pray for one another, that we may become capable of recognizing and upholding God’s visits. The Spirit will bring happy chaos in Christian families, and man’s city will come out of depression!
[Original text: Italian]
[Translation by ZENIT] with some modifications on my part.
PHOTO CREDIT: David Shaw, Eastern Oklahoma Catholic in http://www.dioceseoftulsa.org/pictures/1%20Pontifical%20Mass%20rosary.jpeg